Here’s What You’ll Learn
How To Write A Profile That Gets You Noticed (in a GOOD way)
How to wipe out dating profile “writer’s block” instantly… (Say bye-bye to your boring profile) Write your answers to questions in the game-show profile writing worksheet and you’ll have a blockbuster profile that was actually fun to write. (The best profile writing tool ever created.)
The best ways to “arrange” your profile so it flows in a way that has girl's wanting to know more about you.
Why tossing your profile on the street and following my 3.S.U.M. profile system is so important
A “special” way to write your first sentence (often used in the top women's magazine - Cosmopolitan) that will have that hottie glued to your profile – even with a hundred other distractions competing for her attention.
How to find “hidden” aspects of your personality that make you stand out as exactly what every girl is looking for, “Someone real.”
The Number #1 Rule of profile writing—”Don’t talk about it, BE about it” (How many times have you read, I like my family, I like travel bla bla cliché cliché) This is what to do instead
The main reason most girls automatically dismiss 99% of guys on dating sites, and what aspects of your personality you need to show in your profile to avoid this
The exact number of words your profile should be, plus the most important sentence of all—and how to make it stand out
A big ole’ list of clichés to avoid in your profile. (You like to travel? Wow! Really? *Delete)
The one thing to NEVER mention in your profile—because even though girls are INTERESTED in it, it makes them run for the hills
The little-known reason why trying to “DHV” Demonstrate Higher Value could be screening out the best girls. (Showing that you are a high quality person is a “must” online…or is it?)
Everything You’ll Ever Need To Know About Writing High-Response Emails
Here I give away my 3×5 Email System—the formula I personally use to write emails for my executive clients that get a positive response nearly every time. Writing emails is NOT hard…you just have to know what to say, and what NOT to say. In this lesson I’ll share detailed checklists and worksheets, plus the exact format for first emails that WORK
Oh yeah, and I also show you HEAPS of REAL email examples I actually sent, I go into detail analyzing 15 perfect 1st emails I sent, showing you exactly why they work, along with the part of the girls profile that "inspired" the email, what to look for to write your own, and you get my simple email checklist to make writing you own really easy
Plus you’ll learn how to deal with the five special circumstances that you WILL find yourself in…and five special emails for each of them, telling you EXACTLY what to write. (e.g. Did she not respond to your 1st email? – Don’t even think about giving up. Here’s what to write.
A secret email that will double your responses from the exact type of girl you’re looking for. Hint: It’s one of the “special circumstance emails” that I show you exactly how to write.
The single comment you MUST make in EVERY first email to make your inbox explode with responses. This seems incredibly obvious after you discover it…but not 1 guy in 100 does this (I call it the "nuclear-option")
What to do if a girl you REALLY like disappears after a couple emails (A student asked me this question and it works so well that it's now part of the course)
Why “boring” emails often out-pull “thoughtful” emails
How to write compelling subject lines (This is just one more part of what makes my synergy system work so well)
The #1 “deadly mistake” guys make when they go for a girls number that absolutely assures they don’t get the digits.
A simple way to contact girls—and how it’s the number #1 time-waster for online dating (If you use eHarmony, you will "clean-up" after learning this one.)
Plus you’ll learn the exact timing to use when responding to emails, that will ensure the best response (Respond too fast and you come off needy. Take too long and you kill momentum)
Why greetings like “Hi” and “Hey” are bound to fail—and some surprising data from a study of 500,000 first emails that shows the absolute best greetings to use instead
Four words BOAT LOADS of guys use in emails which you should NEVER use (unless you WANT girls to not email you back!) Plus how using “netspeak” is guaranteed to get your emails deleted
Picking Perfect Profile Pics
How to get your photos noticed—including some surprising research findings from a study analyzing 7,000 online dating pics to see which ones women really find attractive. If you could only improve one thing in your online dating, then photos would have to be it—they’re just incredibly powerful
17 before & after - side by side comparisons of good & bad photos so you actually SEE which photos are the best to use in your profile
Do you have 30 minutes and a little point & shoot camera? (If you don't have many good photos, this one lesson will totally transform your profile)
The details girls notice in your photos that YOU don’t—plus the HUGE mistake you might be making that will literally turns girls off
The C.C.E. system for picking photos that get girls unconsciously wound up and salivating to know more about you
Two utterly simple ways to make yourself "feel" 100× more desirable to women in your photos…they are so obvious you’ll cry
A surprising way to make an otherwise lame-ass photo look like it was taken by a professional with a simple blur effect
How avoiding eye contact with the camera and NOT smiling can almost double the responses you get from girls
A cool free online tool I use for all my profile pics, that makes it incredibly easy to do things like teeth-whitening, red-eye reduction, and fixing colors so your photos pop
My Powerful Secrets for Successfully Getting From the Phone to the Date
Do you feel awkward (or TERRIFIED) on the phone? Do you feel like you’re not in control of the conversation? Not any more, with this simple blueprint for taking charge of first-time phone calls
When should you call and when you should text—the answer is simpler than you think
The two things you MUST have prepared BEFORE making that first phone call, This is the most sure-fire way to get from the phone to the date. Do this and you'll make her feel like you’re the kind of guy she really wants meet
3 handy tips for getting into the right frame of mind before you make that first call—these really help even old-time pros like me
A simple 4-step formula for thinking up great questions that will keep the conversation going (and avoid those awkward pauses!)
The Q.A.S. system to keep the call feeling natural, and avoiding that terrible question-answer pattern (it’s a conversation, not an interrogation!)
Exactly when to call after she has given you her phone number—and when to ask her out. Too soon and you’ll look desperate…too late and someone else will have gotten there first. Don’t blow this
The magic question that will ensure you NEVER get into those awkward, needy situations where you ask her out on a certain day and she says she’s busy. This one question will make the whole process go so much smoother, and make her subconsciously feel like you’re the kind of cool & confident guy she wants to go out with
How to Create the Perfect First Date (that keeps her wanting more)
Most guys pick places for dates that actually make girls feel real uncomfortable. NOT a good start! Here’s how to use “bounce locations” to put her completely at ease…plus make the first date feel varied, spontaneous, and fun
A simple method for making her feel like she has really gotten to know you on the first date—this works by creating lots of different “moments”…instead of what happens on a typical first date, which is just a single long moment
Why having dinner is a HUGE mistake—and what to do instead
Why picking a place that will impress her is a rookie mistake, and will actually handicap your confidence and make the date feel awkward
How to keep the conversation going naturally, without having to wrack your brains, using the F.O.R.M. system
6 things it’s really easy to do on a first date, that you should NEVER do (I learned these from hard experience!)
Whether to go for the kiss on the first date—the answer may surprise you. There’s also one very SPECIFIC way to ALWAYS get the kiss on the first date…but I gotta warn you, I am NOT giving away that particular tip!
Learn The Power of Mixing Facebook With Online Dating
This is how to use Facebook as the Social warmer. What does “social warmer” mean? Simply that Facebook is a great way to build relationships with girls on autopilot—in fact, you can even use it to get dates with hotter girls who you couldn't get a date with before!
You’ll learn how to use Facebook to create a connection over time & keep a relationship warm INDEFINITELY—I’ve literally kept myself “top of mind” with some great girls that I couldn't get a date with, then they asked me out after creating this Facebook connection.
The exact words to use to smoothly connect with a girl on Facebook without being awkward (this is waaaay simpler than most guys think—there’s really no need to tie yourself up in knots here)
Do NOT add girls on Facebook UNTIL you’ve done this simple thing via the phone (Don't worry, girls actually LIKE when you do this — and even welcome it.)
How to fix your Facebook profile so it really shows your value (This can have such a huge effect when it comes to adding fun to your life)
4 aspects of your profile to focus on to get the best results—these elements turn Facebook into a social circle MACHINE
What to do if someone leaves a bad comment on your wall, or tags you in a terrible photo
How you can use lists to keep relationships organized (so you don’t go insane trying to manage everything)